Confidence is one thing where if you lose it, you will lose the winning game, and if you retain it, you can continue fighting with your opponent even if you are losing.
In this context, I have developed a thought process of building confidence to keep everyone agile to win.
- CONCENTRATE ON YOUR GOAL.
Once someone sets the goal, s/he should not distract herself/himself from the goal. Your concentration on the goal will build your confidence.
- OUST ILL FEELINGS FROM THE MIND.
Those who have clean hearts and Minds will always have a focused approach in any matter. If any ill feelings are foiling your minds, it must be removed as early as possible because it will distract your mind and shake confidence.
- NEGATE YOUR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS.
When you take up any task with confidence, failure will always haunt you, and this is where the negativity starts. Now, our confidence matters high to challenge the negativity and start your job with full conviction.
- FULFILL ALL YOUR COMMITMENTS.
No doubt, commitments are made to fulfill. But if it is not happening, then your confidence level will come down. Therefore it is crucial to keep your commitments honoured under all conditions. And if you know, you can’t do it, don’t make commitments.
- INDEPENDENT APPROACH IN ANY MATTER.
If anyone has accomplished his task independently, his confidence level goes high automatically. And he will continue keeping his independent approach in all the matter without anybody’s involvement.
- DELETE OTHER’S CRITICISM FROM YOUR MEMORY.
If you are doing your job confidently, there are all the possibilities to carry out successfully, provided you are not confronted with other’s criticism or sarcasm. This is the time when your confidence level should not be affected adversely. Therefore, it is advisable to ignore it.
- ENLIGHTEN YOURSELF WITH FRESH AND INNOVATIVE IDEAS.
It is vital to develop new ideas to build confidence. Those who keep developing innovative ideas are very confident persons in life compared to those who promote others’ ideas and remain followers.
- NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE PROVIDED YOU DECIDE IT.
Here your attitude matters a lot in building confidence. Because if you decide beforehand that a particular task is difficult to accomplish, then chances are that it will not be achieved. In confidence building, you cannot give up before trying and doing.
- CLOSE YOUR EYES AND REMEMBER YOUR GOD WHEN SHAKING CONFIDENCE.
Confidence is very much related to your inner will power. If your willpower is shaking, you need to call your God Almighty for giving inner power to build confidence.
- EMERGE WITH PROGRESSIVE THOUGHTS
Those who are positive in approach have more confidence in life. Your strategy will fill your emotions with positivity and enlighten you with progressive thoughts and increase your confidence level.
- BEWARE OF OVER CONFIDENCE.
The excess of everything is bad. Therefore overconfidence makes us casual in approach and leads to the danger zone.
I have tried to explain the subject most straightforwardly. I hope you will help yourself in building confidence in performing your task well.
Thanks and best of luck.